“It takes two to quarrel, but only one to end it.”
Your action for today is to contact someone with whom you may have a pending conflict and see if you can resolve it.
“Now, you think you have experienced being somebody else, when very often you have only experienced being the effect of somebody else. Do you get the difference? …
“‘To be’ is cause—ptock! And ‘not to be’ is effect. And so ‘to be’ along the dynamics you have to be cause along the dynamics. And when you go into somebody else’s valence—when you go into another person’s valence—you can say to yourself, ‘Yes, I am being that other person.’ No, you’re not. If you were being that other person, you would be able, actually, to see that other person change, if you were cause. Whereas by going into his valence, you become effect a little bit and you change, see? Different.”
“Commitment is what transforms a promise into reality.”
Your action for today is to take one of the things that you will do “someday,” and assign a date as to when you will have it done.